Pulling some weight..some people jsut dun get what it means to be a team. a team means that you guys stick together no matter what. there is no such thing is you are out of the team, at most is that you are not on the competative group but you are still on the team. a team that kicks people out is not a real team in my view. a real team lives together, sleeps together, falls together and of couse gets up again together.
in my recent adventure race, i realised how hard it is to have a team mate that cannot commit as much as i can. its tough work i know, BUT !! we still stuck together. we went for a swim, hurt our legs and he even lost his specs
BUT WE STUCK THROUGH IT TOGETHER. i am really glad i didnt give up on him and he didnt give up on me.
now bad to the topic, if you are the leader or captian, it doesnt give you the right to throw your weight around IN FACT you have to be the one who is better than everyone else. you have to be understanding, you have to accept that there are people around you that are going through things you dun know of and of cos you need to be able to earn their respect.
In my school we go by this rule :
lead to serve, serve to lead
recently a group of people have jsut proven me right about them. they cant lead for nuts and they cant work as a team, everyone in my poly knows that they are the worse group of people to join even my lectures tell me that. well, right now i think they will jsut crumble away.
hold me now at 11:35 AM